The tried-and-true playbook of “my story” ads, attack ads, direct mailers, yard signs, email barrages, and the endless ping of texts is evolving.
None of these channels are going away. They work, and they will continue to work. But we have spent decades optimizing one side of the communication equation: How do we reach more people, more often, for less money?
And we have gotten incredibly good at it.
We can send a text to a million people. Deliver an email in seconds. Target an ad to an incredibly specific audience. Drop mail into thousands of homes. Put a message in front of almost anyone, almost anywhere.
But somewhere along the way, reach became the goal. And reaching someone isn’t the same thing as communicating with them.
What makes the room work
At a recent event for a statewide race, I asked the candidate and chief of staff a pretty simple question: What are you actually trying to accomplish tonight?
The answer wasn’t “get 500 people into a room.”
They wanted people to understand who the candidate was. They wanted to tell their story, convey their passion, explain what they believed, build trust, get people excited, and, ultimately, give them a reason to get involved and help fund the campaign.
My response was basically: Great. Now let’s bottle that and do it across the entire state.
Because what makes that room effective isn’t the room. It’s the communication happening inside it.
It’s hearing someone’s voice. Listening to their story. Picking up on their excitement, conviction, humor, and personality. It’s having the ability to ask a question and actually get an answer. It’s feeling like someone is talking to you, not simply broadcasting another message in your general direction.
That’s what starts to build a relationship. Relationships build trust. And trust makes every future ask more meaningful.
This is something I think about a lot: We spend an enormous amount of time thinking about what we’re going to say and surprisingly little time thinking about how someone is going to experience it.
Those are not the same thing.
A sentence in an email or text can carry the information, but it can’t always carry the intent. Voice can carry more of it.
The exact same words can sound excited, concerned, funny, serious, grateful, urgent, or deeply personal depending on how they’re spoken. Tone matters. Timing matters. Emotion matters. Emphasis matters. How a message is delivered can be every bit as important as what is being said.
Think about the stories you actually remember. They’re rarely a perfectly formatted paragraph somebody emailed you. You remember how someone told you something. You remember the punchline. The pause. The excitement in their voice. The part they emphasized because it actually mattered to them.
Stories are meant to be heard.
And in a world where everyone is competing for the same few seconds of attention, being recognizable and memorable matters a lot more than simply being present.
The missing half of communication
We’ve already gotten very good at the outbound side of mass communication. We know how to broadcast.
The outbound side of modern communication is incredibly sophisticated. We know who received something. Who opened it. Who clicked. Who donated. Who signed up. Who converted. We can segment audiences, test creative, optimize timing, and send enormous amounts of communication almost instantly.
But what happens when someone actually has something to say back?
That side is still remarkably fragmented.
Replies live in different inboxes. Calls go somewhere else. Survey data sits on another platform. Staff members hear things at events. Social comments live on another feed. Constituent issues end up in another system entirely.
We’ve built incredible infrastructure around speaking at scale, while the infrastructure for listening at scale has lagged behind.
That imbalance makes sense. Sending can be standardized, automated and measured. Listening is messier. Responses are unstructured, spread across channels, and often require judgment to interpret. For a long time, that made the inbound side much harder to organize at scale.
And when we’re talking about representation, that matters.
Representation is inherently a two-way system. Giving updates, explaining positions, raising money, and winning votes are obviously important. But they shouldn’t overshadow the other half of the equation: understanding what people are saying, what they care about, what they’re confused about, what they’re frustrated by, and what they actually want to hear about next.
Listening does not mean treating every response as a mandate or assuming the people who reply are representative of everyone an organization serves. It means having a reliable way to hear what people are saying, preserve what was learned, and let that understanding inform judgment.
What are people telling us?
For a long time, communication has mostly started with: What does the candidate or organization want to say?
I think the next era starts with another question: What are people telling us?
That’s where this starts getting really interesting.
Imagine communicating with 100,000 people and not simply measuring opens and clicks, but actually understanding the conversation that comes back.
What questions are people asking? What issues keep coming up? What are people responding positively to? Where is there confusion? What stories are resonating? What does one community care about that another doesn’t?
Now take all of that inbound communication, organize it, understand it, and let what you’re hearing influence what happens next.
Suddenly, we’re no longer just broadcasting. We’re learning.
And the next message doesn’t have to be the same generic message sent to everyone. It can reflect what someone cares about, what they’ve asked before, and where the relationship already stands.
That’s when communication at scale starts to look less like a sequence of sends and more like a continuing relationship.
The relationship before the ask
There’s another side of this that I think gets overlooked. We ask people for things constantly.
Donate. Vote. Sign up. Attend. Share. Volunteer. Take action.
But an ask without context or a relationship behind it is just another notification.
Imagine someone you haven’t heard from in six months suddenly texting you asking for $50. Now imagine someone who has spent the past six months telling you what they’re working on, explaining why it matters, sharing stories from the road, asking what you think, and responding to your questions.
Then they ask for $50.
Same ask. Completely different context.
The difference is everything that happened before it.
Technology has made it incredibly easy to optimize the ask. I think the much bigger opportunity is to optimize the relationship that comes before the ask.
Voice is one example of what richer communication can look like at scale. It can carry tone, personality, and context that text often cannot. But the larger opportunity is not any one channel. It is building communication systems that can speak, listen, remember, and learn.
Technology can help make that possible at a scale that wasn’t practical before. The point isn’t to automate the relationship. It’s to give organizations a better ability to sustain one.
We don’t need another way to blast another message into the noise. We need better ways to capture attention, tell stories, listen, learn, and build relationships.
Because the future of communication shouldn’t just be about reaching more people.
It should be about actually hearing them.
